Books Our Members Have Found Helpful:
DIVORCE : LEGAL
Fair Share for Women
By: Kathleen Miller
About: Planning the financial aspects of divorce, both short term and long term.
A Man's Guide to a Civilized Divorce
By: Sam Margullies
About: Legal issues, practical issues, meditation, avoiding conflict during negotiation, starting a new life after divorce. Though aimed at men, it is also useful for women.
How to Get Divorced Without Ruining Your Life
By: Sam Margulies
About: Legal Issues, practical issues, meditation, avoiding conflict during negotiation.
DIVORCE: EMOTIONAL RECOVERY
He's History, You're Not: A Woman's Guide to Divorce Over Forty
By: Erica Manfred
About: A practical, sometimes humorous guide about how to survive emotionally as well as financially when you are divorcing. Audience is women over 40 but much of the advice is useful for anyone.
Divorce and New Beginnings
By: Genevieve Clapp
About: Letting go, mourning, regaining self-esteem.
Crazy Times: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life
By: Abigail Trafford
About: Discussing why relationships fall apart (it's an imbalance of power) and the steps you must go through to fully heal from a divorce (and the emotions involved)
Finding Peace, Letting Go and Liking It
By: Paula Peisner Coxe
Quiet Your Mind
By: John Selby
SHOULD YOU DIVORCE?
Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
By: Mira Kirshenbaum
About: A series of questions to help you decide whether to get divorced
FIXING YOUR MARRIAGE
Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love
By: Howard Marksman, Scott Stanley, and Susan Blumberg
About: Keeping conflict under control, learning how to listen, maintaining closeness.
Comment: Provides detailed advice about how to prevent quarrels and building intimacy. A classic.
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
By: Harvey Hendrix
About: An approach to couples therapy, with self-help exercises. Emphasizes clearing away anger, learning to listen without arguing, and resolving conflict. The basic philosophy is that what is good for your spouse is good for you in the long run.
Comment: The author's approach seems overly psychological at times. But the book is full of good insights, and the exercises are excellent.
Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever
By: Scott Haltzman and Theresa Digeronimo
About: How to understand your wife, please her, and achieve marital happiness. Emphasizing spending time at home, learning to listen, learning to deal with conflict.
Comment: Written based on the idea that men and women think differently. Whether or not you agree, the advise is excellent.
Secrets of Happily Married Women
By: The same author's as above
UNDERSTANDING TROUBLED MARRIAGES
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
By: Lundy Bancroft
About: Abusive Husbands.
Not Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.d
About: What the title says - excellent advice as well as information about infidelity in relationships
RELIGION AND MARRIAGE
Boundaries in Marriage
By: Henry Cloud and John Townsend
About: Learning to recognize what you can control and what you can't in your marriage. Learning when to say no. Uses biblical references
Hope for the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed
By: Gary Chapman
About: Achieving possible reconciliation for separated couples utilizing biblical teachings, through small, simple steps.
Sample Chapter Titles: Self-development during separation, Developing your relationship with God, Developing your relationship with your mate, Tough Love, Facing Your Future
DIVORCE : LEGAL
Fair Share for Women
By: Kathleen Miller
About: Planning the financial aspects of divorce, both short term and long term.
A Man's Guide to a Civilized Divorce
By: Sam Margullies
About: Legal issues, practical issues, meditation, avoiding conflict during negotiation, starting a new life after divorce. Though aimed at men, it is also useful for women.
How to Get Divorced Without Ruining Your Life
By: Sam Margulies
About: Legal Issues, practical issues, meditation, avoiding conflict during negotiation.
DIVORCE: EMOTIONAL RECOVERY
He's History, You're Not: A Woman's Guide to Divorce Over Forty
By: Erica Manfred
About: A practical, sometimes humorous guide about how to survive emotionally as well as financially when you are divorcing. Audience is women over 40 but much of the advice is useful for anyone.
Divorce and New Beginnings
By: Genevieve Clapp
About: Letting go, mourning, regaining self-esteem.
Crazy Times: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life
By: Abigail Trafford
About: Discussing why relationships fall apart (it's an imbalance of power) and the steps you must go through to fully heal from a divorce (and the emotions involved)
Finding Peace, Letting Go and Liking It
By: Paula Peisner Coxe
Quiet Your Mind
By: John Selby
SHOULD YOU DIVORCE?
Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
By: Mira Kirshenbaum
About: A series of questions to help you decide whether to get divorced
FIXING YOUR MARRIAGE
Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love
By: Howard Marksman, Scott Stanley, and Susan Blumberg
About: Keeping conflict under control, learning how to listen, maintaining closeness.
Comment: Provides detailed advice about how to prevent quarrels and building intimacy. A classic.
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
By: Harvey Hendrix
About: An approach to couples therapy, with self-help exercises. Emphasizes clearing away anger, learning to listen without arguing, and resolving conflict. The basic philosophy is that what is good for your spouse is good for you in the long run.
Comment: The author's approach seems overly psychological at times. But the book is full of good insights, and the exercises are excellent.
Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever
By: Scott Haltzman and Theresa Digeronimo
About: How to understand your wife, please her, and achieve marital happiness. Emphasizing spending time at home, learning to listen, learning to deal with conflict.
Comment: Written based on the idea that men and women think differently. Whether or not you agree, the advise is excellent.
Secrets of Happily Married Women
By: The same author's as above
UNDERSTANDING TROUBLED MARRIAGES
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
By: Lundy Bancroft
About: Abusive Husbands.
Not Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.d
About: What the title says - excellent advice as well as information about infidelity in relationships
RELIGION AND MARRIAGE
Boundaries in Marriage
By: Henry Cloud and John Townsend
About: Learning to recognize what you can control and what you can't in your marriage. Learning when to say no. Uses biblical references
Hope for the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed
By: Gary Chapman
About: Achieving possible reconciliation for separated couples utilizing biblical teachings, through small, simple steps.
Sample Chapter Titles: Self-development during separation, Developing your relationship with God, Developing your relationship with your mate, Tough Love, Facing Your Future
Books Our Members Have Found Helpful:
DIVORCE : LEGAL
Fair Share for Women
By: Kathleen Miller
About: Planning the financial aspects of divorce, both short term and long term.
A Man's Guide to a Civilized Divorce
By: Sam Margullies
About: Legal issues, practical issues, meditation, avoiding conflict during negotiation, starting a new life after divorce. Though aimed at men, it is also useful for women.
How to Get Divorced Without Ruining Your Life
By: Sam Margulies
About: Legal Issues, practical issues, meditation, avoiding conflict during negotiation.
DIVORCE: EMOTIONAL RECOVERY
He's History, You're Not: A Woman's Guide to Divorce Over Forty
By: Erica Manfred
About: A practical, sometimes humorous guide about how to survive emotionally as well as financially when you are divorcing. Audience is women over 40 but much of the advice is useful for anyone.
Divorce and New Beginnings
By: Genevieve Clapp
About: Letting go, mourning, regaining self-esteem.
Crazy Times: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life
By: Abigail Trafford
About: Discussing why relationships fall apart (it's an imbalance of power) and the steps you must go through to fully heal from a divorce (and the emotions involved)
Finding Peace, Letting Go and Liking It
By: Paula Peisner Coxe
Quiet Your Mind
By: John Selby
SHOULD YOU DIVORCE?
Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
By: Mira Kirshenbaum
About: A series of questions to help you decide whether to get divorced
FIXING YOUR MARRIAGE
Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love
By: Howard Marksman, Scott Stanley, and Susan Blumberg
About: Keeping conflict under control, learning how to listen, maintaining closeness.
Comment: Provides detailed advice about how to prevent quarrels and building intimacy. A classic.
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
By: Harvey Hendrix
About: An approach to couples therapy, with self-help exercises. Emphasizes clearing away anger, learning to listen without arguing, and resolving conflict. The basic philosophy is that what is good for your spouse is good for you in the long run.
Comment: The author's approach seems overly psychological at times. But the book is full of good insights, and the exercises are excellent.
Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever
By: Scott Haltzman and Theresa Digeronimo
About: How to understand your wife, please her, and achieve marital happiness. Emphasizing spending time at home, learning to listen, learning to deal with conflict.
Comment: Written based on the idea that men and women think differently. Whether or not you agree, the advise is excellent.
Secrets of Happily Married Women
By: The same author's as above
UNDERSTANDING TROUBLED MARRIAGES
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
By: Lundy Bancroft
About: Abusive Husbands.
Not Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.d
About: What the title says - excellent advice as well as information about infidelity in relationships
RELIGION AND MARRIAGE
Boundaries in Marriage
By: Henry Cloud and John Townsend
About: Learning to recognize what you can control and what you can't in your marriage. Learning when to say no. Uses biblical references
Hope for the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed
By: Gary Chapman
About: Achieving possible reconciliation for separated couples utilizing biblical teachings, through small, simple steps.
Sample Chapter Titles: Self-development during separation, Developing your relationship with God, Developing your relationship with your mate, Tough Love, Facing Your Future
DIVORCE : LEGAL
Fair Share for Women
By: Kathleen Miller
About: Planning the financial aspects of divorce, both short term and long term.
A Man's Guide to a Civilized Divorce
By: Sam Margullies
About: Legal issues, practical issues, meditation, avoiding conflict during negotiation, starting a new life after divorce. Though aimed at men, it is also useful for women.
How to Get Divorced Without Ruining Your Life
By: Sam Margulies
About: Legal Issues, practical issues, meditation, avoiding conflict during negotiation.
DIVORCE: EMOTIONAL RECOVERY
He's History, You're Not: A Woman's Guide to Divorce Over Forty
By: Erica Manfred
About: A practical, sometimes humorous guide about how to survive emotionally as well as financially when you are divorcing. Audience is women over 40 but much of the advice is useful for anyone.
Divorce and New Beginnings
By: Genevieve Clapp
About: Letting go, mourning, regaining self-esteem.
Crazy Times: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life
By: Abigail Trafford
About: Discussing why relationships fall apart (it's an imbalance of power) and the steps you must go through to fully heal from a divorce (and the emotions involved)
Finding Peace, Letting Go and Liking It
By: Paula Peisner Coxe
Quiet Your Mind
By: John Selby
SHOULD YOU DIVORCE?
Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
By: Mira Kirshenbaum
About: A series of questions to help you decide whether to get divorced
FIXING YOUR MARRIAGE
Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love
By: Howard Marksman, Scott Stanley, and Susan Blumberg
About: Keeping conflict under control, learning how to listen, maintaining closeness.
Comment: Provides detailed advice about how to prevent quarrels and building intimacy. A classic.
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
By: Harvey Hendrix
About: An approach to couples therapy, with self-help exercises. Emphasizes clearing away anger, learning to listen without arguing, and resolving conflict. The basic philosophy is that what is good for your spouse is good for you in the long run.
Comment: The author's approach seems overly psychological at times. But the book is full of good insights, and the exercises are excellent.
Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever
By: Scott Haltzman and Theresa Digeronimo
About: How to understand your wife, please her, and achieve marital happiness. Emphasizing spending time at home, learning to listen, learning to deal with conflict.
Comment: Written based on the idea that men and women think differently. Whether or not you agree, the advise is excellent.
Secrets of Happily Married Women
By: The same author's as above
UNDERSTANDING TROUBLED MARRIAGES
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
By: Lundy Bancroft
About: Abusive Husbands.
Not Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.d
About: What the title says - excellent advice as well as information about infidelity in relationships
RELIGION AND MARRIAGE
Boundaries in Marriage
By: Henry Cloud and John Townsend
About: Learning to recognize what you can control and what you can't in your marriage. Learning when to say no. Uses biblical references
Hope for the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed
By: Gary Chapman
About: Achieving possible reconciliation for separated couples utilizing biblical teachings, through small, simple steps.
Sample Chapter Titles: Self-development during separation, Developing your relationship with God, Developing your relationship with your mate, Tough Love, Facing Your Future
